that brought the circle of life thing once again into focus. I was having lunch with my son who is 40. During lunch a good looking woman walked into the restaurant and I stared a little to long. As I was looking back at him he was smiling and shaking his head. I asked him what was wrong, he said aren't you a little ashamed of yourself? At that moment I remembered exactly what my Dad told me in a similar situation with him years ago. I said "son when you quit thinking about that is when the first shovel of dirt hits you in the face".