Hate to bring this to the board but I really need some advice. My wife and I have been married for almost 4 years. She came clean to me that she had been hooking up with her personal trainer for about a week but had feelings for him for 2-3 months. We had been going through a rough time during that patch so it kind of made sense even though I thought things were getting better. I'm Obviously crushed but I still love her and want to try and work things out. We went to couples counseling and she basically advised us that my wife had some issues she needed to work out in individual counseling before we did more couples counseling. I told her that I forgave her and that she could still stay in the house while we tried to work things out. Thursday night she was really remorseful saying that she wanted to work things out with all of her heart and that she realized she didn't want to lose me as her "diamond" while chasing after "glitter". Then on friday she had a wall up and was really emotional and didn't want to talk at first but then basically admitted that she loved this other guy and couldn't really commit to trying to work things out with me. This other guy is 13 yrs older and married with two kids btw. His wife knows and I think they are trying to work it out. All communication with this guy has stopped. I'm just really not sure what to do. I love her and want to work it out but its killing me being around her knowing that she is wishing she was with someone else. Holding your wife who is heartbroken over another guy is a very shitty feeling. Anybody ever been through something like this or have any advice?
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